We are all raised in different environments and cultures and tend to develop a preconceived idea of what is right or wrong, respectable or disrespectable very early. Okay that is my disclaimer! I have my own set of prejudices. The details to your question ask for honesty
So, for me, it's a yes, sometimes. I am guilty of judging my prospective partners on their dress or lack thereof. I understand that if someone is raised in an area with topless beaches that is the norm. I have lived in the Middle East and understand the hijab, covering, as being the norm.
My cultural prejudice is that there is some fine line, which I know when I see it, on what I am comfortable with regarding a womam’s clothing. This is not fair or just, not is it reasonable. But we all should examine our own prejudices.
I am comfortable in the house naked. In the street, clothing matters. It also makes me more comfortable if a woman is dressed in a less revealing manner. Not because of any other reason than my upbringing. Or perhaps, living in the Middle East.
I don't think a woman is less respectable when she shows skin. It is her cultural norm. It is my problem if that is not my preference. The idea that some tribal peoples in the South Pacific and other areas wear less clothing is culturally appropriate.
It would distract me horribly if women went around the city topless. I guess I could get used to it.
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