Di mawala sa isip ko na nakantot kong pareho ang anak kong si Jade at asawang si Beth sa banyo.
Unica Hija: Back to School (Part 3)
Di mawala sa isip ko na nakantot kong pareho ang anak kong si Jade at asawang si Beth sa banyo.
Unica Hija: Camping Cuddle
“Sorry anak. Hindi lng talaga ako kumportable eh” sabi ko habang ang something ko dumidiin na pala ng dahan dahan sa kanyang hita. Di ko inaasahang iangat niya ng konti ang legs niya dahilan para tumagos ang ulo sa kabila saka naman niya inipit uli. Di ko alam kong sinadya niya yun o baka dahil di nadin siya kumportable.
What Does It Mean To Be A HUBADERA?
Let’s talk about this word: hubadera. In today's lingo, it’s used to describe a girl who’s not afraid to show a little skin, wearing what some might call ‘revealing’ clothes. But, spoiler alert—there’s no malice in it.
Yup, I’m one of those ‘hubaderas.’ And boy, do I hear it: "You’re wearing that out?", "Your outfit’s too revealing!", "Do you even respect yourself?" Oh, and let’s not forget the classic, "Your shorts are too short" or "Your top is too low." Yep, all those comments, plus the never-ending stares—whether it’s judgmental or pervy—and the daily dose of catcalling. News flash: I’m tired of it.
Here’s the deal. My clothes? They represent me. How I dress is an expression of my mood, my vibe, and sometimes, it’s just a confidence booster when I’m feeling a bit nervous. I’m bold, outgoing, and comfortable in my skin. And, surprise—none of that means I don’t respect myself.
Let me be crystal clear: Low cuts, open backs, strappy tops, shorts, ripped jeans—none of this reflects my level of self-respect. So, stop using my wardrobe choices as a measuring stick for whether I deserve respect. I respect myself, and I expect the same from you. My clothing doesn’t define me. I’m a human being, and that alone is worthy of respect. Just like you.
And men? Saying “boys will be boys” doesn’t excuse bad behavior. Restraint and respect are within your control.
Now, before you jump to conclusions—no, I’m not wearing my ‘hubadera’ outfits to get anyone’s attention. I wear them because they make me feel good. I’m not out here fishing for compliments, and I’m definitely not trying to attract you. So when your lingering look turns into you thinking it’s okay to touch me, well, let’s just say you won’t like the consequences.
Wearing what I wear doesn’t make me easy to get, either. Don’t assume that showing a bit of skin is an open invitation. It’s not. I’m hard to get. Period. And the only person who gets to see my body is the one who’s earned the right to see all of me—my soul included.
That said, I know how to follow the rules when needed. Since I started working, I’ve learned to balance my style with a bit of professional polish. No super short skirts or crop tops during the week, but I still make sure my outfit represents who I am because the one thing I refuse to lose is my identity.
And no, you won’t catch me rocking my hubadera outfits at church. Sure, there are times when I might unexpectedly drop by wearing shorts or a tank top, but trust me, I’m embarrassed when that happens. When I go to church, I’m there for God, and I make sure to dress with respect.
So, let’s get one thing straight: Don’t judge me based on my clothes. My body isn’t the only thing I bring to the table. I’ve got a mind, a heart, and an entire personality that you can’t even begin to understand just by looking at me. You don’t know my thoughts, my passions, my dreams, or the kind of person I am in a relationship. There’s so much more to me than what you see on the surface.
The Timeless Beauty of Filipinas: More Than Skin Deep
When you think of beauty, what comes to mind? Is it just physical appearance, or is it something deeper? The beauty of Filipinas has long been celebrated around the world, but there’s so much more to it than meets the eye. It’s not just about their physical attributes—though those are undeniable—but also about the strength, grace, and resilience that Filipinas embody.
Let’s take a journey to explore the multifaceted beauty of Filipinas, celebrating not just their looks but the rich cultural heritage, values, and character that define them.
Physical Beauty: A Diverse Tapestry
Filipinas are renowned for their striking physical beauty—a blend of features that reflect the country’s rich history of cultural diversity. With a mix of Malay, Chinese, Spanish, and other ethnic influences, Filipinas exhibit a wide range of skin tones, facial features, and body types. This diversity is what makes their beauty so unique and captivating.
Whether it’s the warm, sun-kissed complexion, the almond-shaped eyes, or the jet-black hair that cascades like a waterfall, the physical attributes of Filipinas are often celebrated in beauty pageants and fashion shows around the globe. But beyond the surface, there’s a deeper, more profound beauty that shines through.
Inner Strength and Resilience
If there’s one word that encapsulates the spirit of Filipinas, it’s "resilience." This is a nation that has weathered countless storms—both literal and figurative—and Filipinas have always stood strong, often at the forefront of the struggle. From the hardworking mothers who juggle multiple roles to the young professionals breaking barriers in their careers, Filipinas exemplify strength in every aspect of life.
This inner strength, born from generations of overcoming adversity, is a significant part of what makes Filipinas truly beautiful. It’s the kind of beauty that isn’t diminished by time but rather, grows more radiant with every challenge met and every obstacle overcome.
Grace and Poise: The Essence of Filipina Femininity
Grace is another hallmark of Filipina beauty. There’s a natural elegance in the way Filipinas carry themselves, whether they’re walking down the street or speaking in front of a crowd. This grace isn’t just about physical movement; it’s about how they navigate life’s challenges with dignity and composure.
In Filipino culture, poise is highly valued, and Filipinas are often taught from a young age to embody these qualities. This is evident in the way they interact with others—polite, respectful, and always with a smile. It’s a quiet, confident grace that leaves a lasting impression on everyone they meet.
Cultural Pride and Heritage
A Filipina’s beauty is also deeply rooted in her cultural heritage. The Philippines is a country rich in traditions, and Filipinas take pride in their customs, whether it’s in the way they dress, speak, or celebrate their festivals. From the traditional baro’t saya to the modern Filipiniana, the way Filipinas embrace their cultural identity adds another layer to their beauty.
But it’s not just about wearing traditional clothing; it’s about the values and beliefs that these traditions represent. Family, community, and respect for elders are cornerstones of Filipino culture, and Filipinas often embody these values in their daily lives, making them beautiful not just in appearance, but in spirit.
Beauty in Diversity: The Filipina of Today
Today’s Filipina is a blend of tradition and modernity. She’s someone who embraces her roots but also isn’t afraid to step out into the world and make her mark. Whether she’s a doctor, artist, entrepreneur, or educator, the modern Filipina is redefining what it means to be beautiful in a rapidly changing world.
This diversity of roles and aspirations only adds to the multifaceted beauty of Filipinas. They are mothers, daughters, sisters, and leaders—each with their own story, each contributing to the rich tapestry that is the beauty of the Filipina.
Conclusion: Beyond the Surface
The beauty of Filipinas is timeless and enduring, not just because of their physical attributes, but because of the qualities that lie beneath the surface. It’s a beauty that reflects the strength of their spirit, the grace with which they live their lives, and the deep cultural pride that they carry with them.
As we celebrate the beauty of Filipinas, let’s remember that it’s not just about appearances. It’s about who they are, where they come from, and what they stand for. That’s the kind of beauty that truly lasts—a beauty that is more than skin deep.
Kababaihan sa Pilipinas ay malakas at may malaking papel sa lipunan
Ang kababaihan sa Pilipinas ay malakas at may malaking papel sa lipunan at ekonomiya sa iba't ibang paraan. Narito ang ilang mga kadahilanan kung bakit maaaring sabihing "powerful" ang mga kababaihan sa Pilipinas:
Kasaysayan ng Women Empowerment: Mula pa sa panahon ng pakikibaka para sa kasarinlan, ang mga kababaihan sa Pilipinas ay naging bahagi ng mga kilusang naglalayong itaguyod ang karapatan at pagkakapantay-pantay sa lipunan. Ang kanilang pakikibaka ay nagbunga ng mga batas at polisiya na nagbibigay-protekta at nagpapabuti sa kalagayan ng kababaihan sa bansa.
Women in Leadership: Maraming kababaihan ang nagsisilbing lider sa Pilipinas, mula sa larangan ng pulitika, negosyo, edukasyon, at iba pa. Marami sa kanila ang naging presidente, senador, kongresista, gobernador, at mayor, na nagpapakita ng kanilang kakayahan sa pamumuno.
Economic Contributions: Malaki ang kontribusyon ng mga kababaihan sa ekonomiya ng Pilipinas. Marami sa kanila ang nagtatrabaho bilang propesyonal, negosyante, manggagawa, at OFW (Overseas Filipino Workers). Bukod pa rito, marami rin sa kanila ang namumuno sa maliliit na negosyo at enterprises.
Women's Rights and Advocacy: Maraming organisasyon at grupo ang naglalayong itaguyod ang karapatan ng mga kababaihan sa Pilipinas. Kasama na dito ang mga kampanya para sa gender equality, violence against women, reproductive health, at iba pang mga usapin na may kinalaman sa kababaihan.
Education and Empowerment: Sa nakalipas na mga dekada, mas pinagtuunan ang edukasyon ng kababaihan, kaya't mas marami na silang oportunidad upang mapabuti ang kanilang sarili at kontribusyon sa lipunan.
Resilience and Empowerment: Ang mga kababaihan sa Pilipinas ay kilala sa kanilang matatag na loob at kakayahan na harapin ang mga pagsubok. Sa kabila ng mga hamon, patuloy silang nakikipaglaban at nagsisikap para sa kanilang mga pangarap at layunin.
Bagamat may mga kadahilanan na nagpapakita ng "empowerment" ng kababaihan sa Pilipinas, mahalagang tandaan na hindi pa rin ito ganap na kaganapan. May mga isyu pa rin tulad ng gender inequality, violence against women, at access sa oportunidad na patuloy na kinakaharap ng mga kababaihan. Kailangan pa rin ng patuloy na suporta at pagkilos mula sa lahat ng sektor ng lipunan upang mas palakasin pa ang kapangyarihan at papel ng mga kababaihan sa bansa.
